Thursday, March 11, 2010

We treat different people differently for a reason.

Maybe because they always joke around so we take things they say as a joke even if they mean it.
Maybe because they are always serious so we take things they say seriously even if its a joke.
Maybe because they told you that you never listen so you take everything they say seriously and lost your ability to joke with them.
Maybe they told you that you have no sense of humor so to prove them wrong you laugh at everything they say.

Even if everyone say the same thing, each and everyone of us would get a different response. Some might laugh, some might believe. Some might ignore, while some might listen.

Is that fair?

Just because he is quiet so you don't tell him things even if he should know it. He'd be like a frog in a well, not knowing anything that is happening around him.
Doesn't that make him shut himself even more?

Maybe its something they said, or something that you assume they think.

How do you solve this problem?
Do you tell them people that they never listen, and everyone would take you seriously even when you tell a joke.
Then you'd have to tell them you're just joking, and they would never take you seriously.

Sometimes I think, if you confront the problem, it would only create more problems.
Bias. Thats the word.

I'm not used to being a background character.
Im not complaining, I'm just putting down my thoughts on black and white.
And you'll be sighing saying "not again"

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